The Relational Importance of Affect Regulation in Mentalization and Thomistic Philosophy

Abstract

The significance of affect regulation in relationships is examined specifically in the context of mentalization theory and Thomistic Philosophy. In particular, the author reviews and expands on extant literature indicating that balanced affect regulation both facilitates, and is facilitated by, healthy relationships. Given its unique focus on one’s own mind and the minds of others, mentalization theory is proposed as an effective framework for conceptualizing client dysregulation. Relevant findings from interpersonal neurobiology and attachment theory are also considered in support of the present thesis. Moreover, Thomistic philosophical principles serve to enhance the relational framework for affect regulation. Most notably, the Thomistic conceptualizations of affect, self, and trust are considered in dialogue with contemporary psychological understanding. The author concludes by positing three applications of Thomistic philosophy to the current body of psychological knowledge.